Slay Your Dragons - Malcolm Stern
"Slay your dragons with compassion"
To become equal to the dream sewn within us, our heart must break open and usually must break more than once. That’s why they say that the only heart worth having is a broken heart. For only in breaking can it open fully and reveal what is hidden within." - Michael Meade
This is a series of podcasts based on the premise explored in Malcolm Stern’s acclaimed book of the same name, that adversity provides us with the capacity to develop previously unexplored depths and is , in effect , a crucible for self reflection and awareness. Malcolm lost his daughter Melissa to suicide in 2014. It slowly dawned on him over the following few years that he was being educated and an opportunity was being presented where new insights helped him forge a path through his grief and despair. As part of that cathartic journey, he wrote “ Slay Your Dragons with Compassion ( Watkins 2020 ) where he was able to describe some of the practices that had helped him shed light on a way through the darkness.
Having run courses for a number of years for Onlinevents, he entered into a collaboration with John and Sandra Wilson, to put together a series of podcasts which featured interviews with people who had found enrichment through facing into, and ultimately overcoming adversity. The intention was to provide inspiration for its listeners to map out and challenge their own adversity. Some of his guests are well known - others less so, but each has a story to tell of courage, insight and spiritual and emotional intelligence.
More than 50 podcasts have been published so far and include Jo Berry’s moving story of transforming her fathers murder by the IRA in the Brighton bomb blast ( Sir Anthony Berry) by engaging with Pat McGee ( the man who planted the bomb) and finding forgiveness and meaning and an unlikely friendship. Andrew Patterson was an international cricketer who has found purpose and meaning after a genetic illness paralysed him and ended his sporting career. Jay Birch was an armed robber and meth addict , who woke up to his true self and now mentors and coaches other troubled individuals and Jim McCarty, a founder member of the Yardbirds , shares his story of his wife’s death from cancer and the deep spirituality he found in the wake of her passing.
All the podcasts are presented by Malcolm Stern. Who has worked as a group and individual psychotherapist for more than 30 years. He is Co-Founder of Alternatives at St James’ Church in London and runs groups internationally.
Sponsored by Onlinevents
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Episodes
77 episodes
Finding Light in Darkness: Malcolm Stern's Journey with the Slay Your Dragons Podcast
Malcolm Stern takes a moment to reflect on the extraordinary journey of the "Slay Your Dragons with Compassion" podcast series in this special episode recorded during Podcast-thon. Born from the profound grief following his daughter Melissa's s...
Roses, Relationships, and Rewiring: One Woman's Path to Wholeness with Jewels Wingfield
When four-year-old Jewels Wingfield found temporary escape from her violent home environment by burying her face in a neighborhood rosebush, she discovered a profound truth that would shape her life's journey: nature could offer healing when hu...
Death, Finance, and Plasters: An Unexpected Path to Purpose with Joel Bravette
Celebrating the 50th episode of Slay Your Dragons with Compassion, I welcome Joel Bravette, a finance professional whose extraordinary life journey defies conventional career patterns. Joel's story begins with early encounters with death and lo...
From Corporate Armor to Compassionate Leadership with Micael Johnstone
In a world where business often prioritises profit over people, our latest podcast episode challenges this norm by introducing a refreshing perspective on compassionate leadership. Join us as we explore how vulnerability and genuine humanity ca...
From Shadows to Light: A Story of Redemption, Personal Growth, and the Power of Community with Jay Birch
Have you ever found yourself at a crossroads, unsure of which path to take? Meet Jay Birch, whose journey from a life of crime and addiction to becoming a mentor and coach offers a beacon of hope for anyone facing their own inner battles. Jay o...
Unlocking Childhood Memories: A Journey of Healing, Connection, and Self-Compassion with Helen McCarthy
Have you ever wondered how childhood memories can unlock profound healing in adulthood? Join me, Malcolm Stern, as I sit down with the inspiring Helen McCarthy to discuss her incredible journey through psychotherapy groups. Together, we explore...
From War-Torn Roots to Healing Minds: Emmy van Deurzen's Journey of Wisdom, Vulnerability, and Transformation
Join us for a profound exploration into the life and work of Emmy van Deurzen, a revered psychotherapist and author, as she unpacks her personal journey from a war-torn upbringing to a career dedicated to alleviating human suffering. Emmy share...
Confronting the Shadows: A Journey of Personal Growth, Family Dynamics, and Emotional Resilience with Tom Kelly
What happens when the emotional distance of a beloved parent drives you to seek deeper meaning and connection in life? Join us as we welcome Tom Kelly, a business psychologist and organizational development expert, who shares his deeply persona...
A Journey of Compassion and Legacy: Embracing Ethics, Authenticity, and the Warrior Spirit with Sangeeta Waldron
Discover how Sangeeta, an inspiring author and PR agent, found her life's mission through the legacy of her mother's compassion. Her heartfelt journey, influenced by her mother’s selfless service in Indian hospitals, will pull you into a narrat...
Transforming Adversity into Art: A Journey of Healing, Empathy, and Forgiveness with Mo Cohen
What if you could transform past adversities into a pathway for personal growth and empathy? Join us as we sit down with the inspiring Mo Cohen, who shares his remarkable journey through the trials of his childhood and the powerful role of thea...
From Cricket Legend to Resilient Advocate: Embracing Vulnerability and Redefining Identity with Andrew Patterson
Patto, a former professional and international cricketer with a remarkable story, joins us to share his powerful journey of resilience and transformation. From playing alongside cricket legends at prestigious clubs to facing the life-changing d...
Embracing the Magic Within: A Journey Through Wizardry, Mortality, and Infinite Growth with Andrew Wallas
What if you could unlock the magic within yourself by embracing your inner wizard? Join us as we welcome Andrew Wallas, a remarkable businessman turned self-proclaimed modern-day wizard, who has carved a unique path from psychotherapy to pionee...
Defying Expectations: A Journey of Humor, Resilience, and Authenticity in Filmmaking and Life with Neil Ben
What if you could redefine limits and challenge societal norms? Join us as we uncover the extraordinary story of Neil Ben, a distinguished filmmaker born with Klippel-Feil Syndrome, who has navigated life with a determination that has defied ev...
Embracing Adversity: The Path to Resilience, Spiritual Growth, and Inner Wisdom with William Bloom
What happens when we confront life's greatest challenges with compassion instead of despair? Join us as we welcome William Bloom, a dear friend, and colleague, to our enlightening discussion on adversity and human resilience. William shares his...
Embracing Adversity and Spiritual Growth: Navigating Life’s Challenges with Wisdom and Compassion with Etan Ilfeld
Have you ever wondered how adversity shapes our personal growth? Join us for a meaningful conversation with Etan Ilfeld, a luminary in the publishing world and a driving force in the consciousness movement. From unexpectedly transitioning from ...
Finding Peace in Tumultuous Times: A Heartfelt Exploration of Resilience, Spiritual Growth, and Inner Transformation with Karen Eden
What if you could find profound peace in the midst of life's greatest challenges? Join us on a heartfelt journey with our dear friend Karen Eden, who shares her remarkable story of resilience and inner transformation. Karen's unexpected experie...
Resilience and Transformation: A Story of Healing, Love, and Serendipity with Michelle Shine
Michelle Shine's remarkable journey of resilience and transformation is a testament to the powerful impact of adversity on one's life. Imagine facing a daunting health crisis with your child, only to discover a miraculous path to recovery that ...
Redefining Success: A Journey of Authenticity, Personal Growth, and Mental Health Awareness with Nick Williams
What happens when the traditional markers of success lose their shine? Join us as we sit down with Nick Williams, who left a thriving sales and marketing career in search of something more meaningful. Nick's journey is a testament to the courag...
Embracing Authenticity: A Journey of Courage, Sobriety, and Self-Discovery with Karen Duarte
Karen's transformative journey from addiction to authenticity provides a powerful narrative of resilience and courage. For over 40 years, alcohol was Karen's crutch for coping with societal expectations, self-esteem issues, and social anxiety. ...
From Mother of Three to Publishing Pioneer and Conscious Community Builder with Judy Piatkus
What if your greatest setbacks became the foundation for your biggest triumphs? Join us as we sit down with Judy Piatkus, the pioneering founder of Piatkus Books, to explore her inspiring journey from a secretary in publishing to the helm of a ...
Resilience and Legacy: Navigating Adversity, Family Bonds, and Authentic Living with Ian Wilson
What happens when life throws the ultimate curveballs your way? Join us for an intimate conversation with Ian, who has faced unimaginable adversity, including surviving a brain hemorrhage mid-cycle and enduring the heart-wrenching loss of his m...
From Chronic Pain to Creative Healing: Adela Bevan's Transformative Journey of Resilience and Soul Connection with Adela Bevan
What happens when an active and vibrant yoga and dance teacher finds herself bed bound, battling chronic pain that seems endless? Adela's poignant and inspiring journey tackles this very question. Her story unfolds through her struggle to find ...
Transforming Adversity into Purpose: Resilience, Parenting, and the Complexities of Spiritual Leadership with Alex Howard
What happens when you turn personal adversity into a mission that touches thousands of lives? Alex Howard, founder of Conscious Life and a trailblazer in the field of personal development and therapy, joins us to share his transformative journe...
Harnessing the Power of Nutrition: A Journey Through Cancer, Healing, and Joyful Living with John Hager
What if you could challenge a life-threatening cancer diagnosis with the power of nutrition? Join us as we sit down with John Hagger, who took an extraordinary leap of faith by rejecting conventional chemotherapy and embracing Gerson therapy. L...
Transforming Tragedy into Peace: Jo Berry's Journey of Empathy, Forgiveness, and Healing
What happens when a tragedy transforms into a mission of peace? Jo Berry, who lost her father, Sir Anthony Berry, in the 1984 Brighton bomb blast, joins us to share her remarkable journey from grief to reconciliation. At 27, Jo faced an emotion...